Tuesday 31 March 2009

Dating Rules Every Man And Woman Should Know

Many people fail with dating time and time again and that is because they have never been made privy to some really timeless and important rules when it comes to dating. You may be one of the many people who does not like to date by the rules, but there are some tips that you can follow to help you do better with dating so that at the very least you have a good time and at the most that you have another date with someone that you like.

Don't talk about your past too much. You can talk about where you came from, but don't go on and on about your dating woes or even your dating successes. This will make the person that you are dating feel like they are just a future story and they'll be turned off.

Don't come across as desperate. Many people get really excited about going out on a date, and while this can be very exciting; don't come across as too enthusiastic about the date. If you do this you will seem needy and it will be an immediate turn off for any self respecting person. This is not just on the date, but in contacting your date before or after your plans.

When you are out on a date compliment them. You can find anything such as their style of dress, a new haircut, shoes, or even their eyes. Be careful with too much complimenting though, as it can come across as false and this will be a turn off. Heart felt compliments are the only way to go.

Don't talk about past relationships. This needs to be mentioned because we all tend to do this if we aren't careful. If they ask about a previous relationship you can answer, but keep it short and sweet. If you go on and on you'll appear as though you are not over your ex and your date will lose interest really fast.

Make sure that you are always dressed for the date. The worst thing you can do when dating is to show up and look like you just came from the gym or rolled out of bed. Ensuring that you look your best will not only make you feel good, but will also send a message to your date that they are important enough to prepare for.

These are some simple tips that will help you succeed with dating. You might look at them and think that it is all common sense, but it isn't. Many people break these simple rules every time they go out on a date and they don't even think about it. Now that you have read the tips you can keep them in the back of your mind so that when you are about to break them, you can stop yourself and redirect the date in a more positive manner!