Confident Body Language Makes and Dating Success

Pay attention to how you walk. The way you walk, whether it is down the street or to you're your car or when you are approaching a woman tells the world so much about you that you may as well hang a sign around your next. A slow, shuffled walk with the head hanging is a huge indication that you don't feel like much of a man. A strong and confident stride indicates that you feel pretty powerful in your own right. Using your natural body language to help you on your journey of discovering women can actually be a truly transforming experience.

When you opt to walk up to a woman, whether you are interested or not plays a role in how you present yourself. When you aren't interested you aren't feeling any type of threat and so you have a more confident stride. When you are interested and are working up the nerve to express a desire or ask for her time next Friday night, there is a fear of rejection and thus the body language changes and you hold your entire posture weaker and less fiercely. So it would ne a logical next step to believe that if we remove the threat of being turned down as a fearful event, then we may very well present ourselves with much more confidence.

Confidence is an important characteristic to landing a confident and healthy woman. You can't land what you can't portray. This means that when you decide to approach women, you have to put yourself back on a level playing field. If she turns you down, can you see that as a good thing? If she isn't interested, she simply saved you some time. She also saved you some heartache in the long run. Why chase a woman who isn't interested in you? It's not very self respecting.

If you want to really focus on your posture, practice talking to women that you feel are out of your league. You don't have to ask them out or even flirt with them. Just initiate any conversation to get things rolling. She might think you're hitting on her but if you know that you're not, just work on your entire posturing while you're talking to her. Be genuine and sincere, but remember that you're not interested. This technique has backfired a few times and the guy practicing has ended up walking away with a date from a practice run.

Practicing takes the mystery out of beautiful women. If you can hold a conversation, remain genuine, and hold your posture the entire time you talk to a beautiful woman, the next time you want to ask a woman out you aren't going to be nearly as intimidated. This sort of practice run can help to boost your confidence and give you a footing in the idea that women, nor men, do not hold all the power in the beginning of the relationship. Just as you want to ask her out because you are interested in her, she probably wants to hold your attention just as well.

Men's Dating Tips To Attract Beautiful Women

It has gotten a little confusing for guys as of late to figure out exactly what women like and don't like. They are independent creatures and yet when dating they seem to have a different range of expectations. Women are independent. They don't like to be "taken care of" the way you take care of an infant child. They like to think for themselves, they like to be able to make their own decisions, and they like to be accomplished and capable. But there is still something to be said for being treated with respect and honoring the fact that they are also very amazing and intricate creatures.

Treat your woman like charmed angel with power while you are on your date. You never want to assume to take away a woman's power. Pull out her chair for her while still thinking she can move the world. Grab a table or find her a seat while still knowing that she has the ability to handle everything. Simple action of caring are different actions of care taking. Care taking implies that they can't or are not as good as a guy at taking care of themselves and the world around them. Actions of caring are sweet and yet simple, subtle and yet gentlemanly.

Make sure that you are timely. A lot of women won't wait more than fifteen minutes past the agreed upon time before splitting and so it is vital that you respect her time and get there on time. Don't make her wait as a test to see if she really wants to go out with you. She already said she did so why take it any further and cause unnecessary friction. Always check to see that she is comfortable with the location of the table. A small gesture like this can mean you date might last longer. If she is in a drafty location and freezes through the entire date, she isn't going to want to longer over drinks or coffee at the end of the evening.

No matter what happened during your day, you need to stay relaxed and calm. You are just there to have a good time and to be part of her environment for awhile. If you keep thinking that a little nookie would really help to calm you down and that she is just the perfect one for the job, you're going to be on edge and that's going to come across to her. Maintain a good attitude about everything that happens throughout the night and you'll have a much better night.

Pay the bill. Women are independent and they might insist on paying their share. If she insists more than twice, then let her do so, but otherwise give her the chance to be taken out and let her know that you have got this one. You might not be able to afford to pay every time. The first one is an important one and there is no harm in winking that she can split it with you next time.

Just be yourself and relax throughout the evening. Loosen up to have some fun in the company of a woman and let the night lead wherever it may.

Creative Romance in Dating Relationship

Creative introductions can be really awesome ways to meet women and stand out form the crowd. When you are competing for a woman's attention, sometimes going a little toward the humorous and creative can open up doors that you never thought possible. Of course, ever guy has a different definition of what is truly creative and what falls to the wayside. When you tap into your creative juices, think about how it would feel for a woman to be exposed to your particular idea, and reflect upon whether or not it is still rather genuine and

Being creative might mean introducing yourself with a specially made fake ID or creating a whirlwind of mystery around who you are and what you're all about. Women do appreciate a little creativity, and when you can stand apart from other guys with your sense of humor, it works really well with the right woman.

Maintaining creativity all throughout a romance is important. Creative relationships not only tend to last but are a lot of fun for the parties involved. When you try new ideas and go for new theories when it comes to expressing yourself to a woman, in almost any circumstance you are going to be rewarded not only for the initial effort, but for thought as well. And when a woman is busy rewarding for creative play, she is most definitely willing to go for a little more creative expression herself.

Why don't guys get really creative and offer some women a whole new perspective of who they are and the dating game? Most guys will admit that they are afraid of making themselves look foolish. Looking foolish is something that is only in the eye of the beholder. Looking foolish can also come from holding back and resisting the full participation in any idea. If you are trying to meet a girl who spends every Saturday afternoon at the ice rink and you decide to slap on some skates and try an ultra fresh performance for her, the only way you are going to look foolish is if you hold back. Other than that you can completely expect to be seen as sweet, romantic, and creative.

When you are working toward being really expressive and interesting, challenge yourself to reach new levels of personal involvement. It can be creatively expressive to order up a singing telegram, but it is also very easy to write out a check. It is much more involved to show up in a rented costume and do the singing yourself. Of course, your level of comfort probably will determine how hands on you decide to get. Creative interaction is in part about stretching your boundaries and in part about having a good experience.

It can be very difficult to read up on how to be creative because it is such a personal idea. Creativity means different things to different people. When you are trying to be creative you are also trying to use part of your brain that you either exercise regularly or hardly ever exercise at all depending on your personality. Some ideas that strike some women as creative and others as just thoughtful can vary as well. If you are sure that you are looking to create some romance in the picture, whether you have just met, barely met at all, or have been together for twenty years, the trick is to find out what she believes is romantically creative and then run with offshoots of what she gives you. Sometimes you have to ask the question outright and sometimes you can figure it out if you are just paying attention.

When you are working toward being really expressive and interesting, challenge yourself to reach new levels of personal involvement. It can be creatively expressive to order up a singing telegram, but it is also very easy to write out a check. It is much more involved to show up in a rented costume and do the singing yourself. Of course, your level of comfort probably will determine how hands on you decide to get. Creative interaction is in part about stretching your boundaries and in part about having a good experience.

Challenging yourself to come up with new ways of expressing interest in a woman can actually be a lot of fun. You can hit websites, you can make lists, and of course, you can experiment and get her direct opinion. When she is able to tell you what she believes is creative and offers you her own ideas, you know you are developing one of the most important aspect of creating a strong and meaningful relationship fun.

Have fun getting creative, whether it is to meet someone special or to keep someone special. Getting down and pulling out all the stops can be quite a trip for everyone. Don't be afraid to get silly and don't be afraid that she thinks you will be silly. If she can't appreciate how far you're willing to go then perhaps you need to be seeking out a different type of

Social Life Improves Your Dating Success

While men and women differ on this particular topic, a social life is important to both genders. Ironically, more and more men and women both report having great difficulty in the once simple prospect of making friends. Remember how easy it was when we were all young? You stood next to someone on the playground or in line and just asked them if they wanted to be your friend. Once they agreed you were off and running and playing together.

The adult world makes it a little more difficult. Many people report that the majority of the friends either come from their work environment or a hobby interest. If work friends aren't happening and you don't have a hobby that is ready to lift off the ground and boost your social life, then you have to go out, meet people, and be ready to exchange information so that you can contact them again.

Workshops and seminars are a really good place to network and sometimes you can make one good friend in these environments, but making friends means going out and finding places where you can hang out, talk to a wide variety of people and going on about your business once you have collected their name and number or email address.

Regardless of their gender, don't call a brand new friend the next day. Give it a few days to a week before you go charging off to ask them to meet you for coffee or drinks or whatever. There is no need to make up an excuse, just simply tell them that you really enjoyed their company and that you had some free time that you'd like to spend getting together and hanging out. Make it easy for them and they will usually respond with a positive response.

You do have to take a significant amount of time to develop real friendships. You really can't run out and find a new best friend like you could when you were eight. Instead you have to start showing up to a lot of places, spending time with people individually. Going fishing or sailing or hiking or whatever floats everyone's proverbial boat creates a good adventure to get to know two or three new friends at once.

The hardest part about making new friends is realizing that you may have some significant differences. You might need to really take a poll of your inner feelings about some issues, especially those that center around religion or politics. After all, nobody is going to meet all of your criteria. You may find that you like one person more than you originally planned and you might find the person you thought was going to be the greatest friend in the world isn't going to make any type of friend for you. Relax, be as accepting as possible, and then let the new relationships in your life take on a course of their own. Present yourself as authentically as possible and never be afraid to be who you are.

When you start hanging out with any one particular friend over a period of a few weeks with more regularity, you might decide that you want to meet their friends. This is a simple method of expending your circle and deciding that the person your new friend is talking about sounds like someone worth meeting, and expressing that thought. In most cases, the next time the gang is all heading out to grab a bite to eat together that you will be invited along. Let things unfold naturally and over the period of a few months you will go from no friends to a strong circle of growing friends. And friendships that are really true and strong are worth more than you could ever calculate.