Three Ways on How to Be Irresistible

It's easy to get the woman you want, especially if you're as good looking and appealing as Justin Timberlake or Brad Pitt. But if you belong to the group of men who have been thrown drinks right onto their face or have been slapped hard on the face for picking up a woman in a bar, then you might say getting a woman is as hard as perfecting the SAT exam. However, pick up gurus don't believe so. You can be irresistible even if you couldn't pull off a Timberlake dance step or crack that Pitt grin. Below are 3 ways to be irresistible:

1. Make eye contact.
The eyes speak. It tells if you're happy or if you're sad or you are madly in love with a woman. Tell the woman in the room that you desire her. Throw her glances that tell her she's beautiful and that she's desired. Make eye contact once in a while and hold it for a few seconds. The trick would work if you would drop your gaze down ahead of her and don't look at her so often that she'd feel as though she's being stalked. Make eye contact for a couple of times and then stop. Make her want for more.

2. Talk less.
Women still love the old type of guy, the strong silent type. Women believe that men who talk less are men of action. To keep the attention of a woman, let her do the talking and be an ardent listener. She'll appreciate it more than you talking about yourself. Contribute to the conversation if you think she needs a response or if she's asking a question. Be an active listener as well an active communicator. Being a communicator doesn't necessarily mean you should talk and talk; you talk on times when you are expected or needed to talk.

3. Don't flatter women too much.
Although women want to hear flattering comments, they hate it when it seems like you are spreading it on much. According to pick up books, women want a man who likes them for whom they are and appreciate them even with their faults. If you think a woman looks stunning in her dress, tell her so but don't overdo it by telling her all night that she looks great. You can flatter her in other ways by casting her a look that tells her you desire her much.