It has gotten a little confusing for guys as of late to figure out exactly what women like and don't like. They are independent creatures and yet when dating they seem to have a different range of expectations. Women are independent. They don't like to be "taken care of" the way you take care of an infant child. They like to think for themselves, they like to be able to make their own decisions, and they like to be accomplished and capable. But there is still something to be said for being treated with respect and honoring the fact that they are also very amazing and intricate creatures.
Treat your woman like charmed angel with power while you are on your date. You never want to assume to take away a woman's power. Pull out her chair for her while still thinking she can move the world. Grab a table or find her a seat while still knowing that she has the ability to handle everything. Simple action of caring are different actions of care taking. Care taking implies that they can't or are not as good as a guy at taking care of themselves and the world around them. Actions of caring are sweet and yet simple, subtle and yet gentlemanly.
Make sure that you are timely. A lot of women won't wait more than fifteen minutes past the agreed upon time before splitting and so it is vital that you respect her time and get there on time. Don't make her wait as a test to see if she really wants to go out with you. She already said she did so why take it any further and cause unnecessary friction. Always check to see that she is comfortable with the location of the table. A small gesture like this can mean you date might last longer. If she is in a drafty location and freezes through the entire date, she isn't going to want to longer over drinks or coffee at the end of the evening.
No matter what happened during your day, you need to stay relaxed and calm. You are just there to have a good time and to be part of her environment for awhile. If you keep thinking that a little nookie would really help to calm you down and that she is just the perfect one for the job, you're going to be on edge and that's going to come across to her. Maintain a good attitude about everything that happens throughout the night and you'll have a much better night.
Pay the bill. Women are independent and they might insist on paying their share. If she insists more than twice, then let her do so, but otherwise give her the chance to be taken out and let her know that you have got this one. You might not be able to afford to pay every time. The first one is an important one and there is no harm in winking that she can split it with you next time.
Just be yourself and relax throughout the evening. Loosen up to have some fun in the company of a woman and let the night lead wherever it may.
Tuesday, 27 January 2009
Men's Dating Tips To Attract Beautiful Women
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