Confident Body Language Makes and Dating Success

Pay attention to how you walk. The way you walk, whether it is down the street or to you're your car or when you are approaching a woman tells the world so much about you that you may as well hang a sign around your next. A slow, shuffled walk with the head hanging is a huge indication that you don't feel like much of a man. A strong and confident stride indicates that you feel pretty powerful in your own right. Using your natural body language to help you on your journey of discovering women can actually be a truly transforming experience.

When you opt to walk up to a woman, whether you are interested or not plays a role in how you present yourself. When you aren't interested you aren't feeling any type of threat and so you have a more confident stride. When you are interested and are working up the nerve to express a desire or ask for her time next Friday night, there is a fear of rejection and thus the body language changes and you hold your entire posture weaker and less fiercely. So it would ne a logical next step to believe that if we remove the threat of being turned down as a fearful event, then we may very well present ourselves with much more confidence.

Confidence is an important characteristic to landing a confident and healthy woman. You can't land what you can't portray. This means that when you decide to approach women, you have to put yourself back on a level playing field. If she turns you down, can you see that as a good thing? If she isn't interested, she simply saved you some time. She also saved you some heartache in the long run. Why chase a woman who isn't interested in you? It's not very self respecting.

If you want to really focus on your posture, practice talking to women that you feel are out of your league. You don't have to ask them out or even flirt with them. Just initiate any conversation to get things rolling. She might think you're hitting on her but if you know that you're not, just work on your entire posturing while you're talking to her. Be genuine and sincere, but remember that you're not interested. This technique has backfired a few times and the guy practicing has ended up walking away with a date from a practice run.

Practicing takes the mystery out of beautiful women. If you can hold a conversation, remain genuine, and hold your posture the entire time you talk to a beautiful woman, the next time you want to ask a woman out you aren't going to be nearly as intimidated. This sort of practice run can help to boost your confidence and give you a footing in the idea that women, nor men, do not hold all the power in the beginning of the relationship. Just as you want to ask her out because you are interested in her, she probably wants to hold your attention just as well.