Thursday 14 May 2009

Tips For Effective Dating

You got the chance to have your long-time crush to be your date on your Prom Night. You did not know what to do. Well, here are some helpful tips that you might use to impress your date and get to know her a bit more.

First, before that special night, you have got to do some preparations. Like, grooming yourself up to make yourself presentable and likable to your date. Get your hair done, get some manicure. Even guys need to be vain at some point in time. Rent a suit or tuxedo that you are to wear, if you can afford to have custom tailored suit why not have one? It is your time to shine. Prom nights happen only once. Do not forget to clean your shoes or buy a new pair. It is not bad to spend some dime for yourself.

Next, the flowers, of course the flowers! Do not ever forget the flowers that you are to give your date. Pick flowers that are soothing to the eyes.

Then prepare the RIDE. Of course you are to pick your date up the doorsteps of her residence. It gives a good impression to the parents to show that you are man enough to cross their gate. If you own a car, well good for you. If you don't, hmm maybe you can borrow your dad's or your mom's even just for this night. But you got to remember to tidy it up. You don't want to turn her off with your car, don't you?

Most importantly, your manners. Be a GENTLEMAN. Applying this trait ensures a next date. This will also show that you pretty much are mature enough to handle relationships. This will give a glimpse of your true personality. Don't forget to guide her in the way to car, open the door for her. It is not polite to stare at her, so just try to resist staring at her will you? Do not take advantage of her being a woman. You have to pay her some respect. As they always say, respect begets respect. By showing that you are a true gentleman, you can easily gain her trust. She will come to think that you are a decent and trustworthy man. Do not act assuming. Girls hate it.

Next, while in the party. You got to make her feel like a princess. Serve her her drinks. Ask her to dance, in a polite manner. Do not try so hard, I mean you have act as yourself. Do not try to show her the person whom you are not. Also, do not try to be so over-protective, she is not your girl in the first place. If at some point, someone asked her to dance and she agreed, do not block their way or act foolish. Don't act like a kid who dropped his candy and all over it.

Lastly, when the party is over. You got to drive her home safely. So, never ever forget to thank her for the night. Say that you had a wonderful evening with her. That you enjoyed every minute of it. And ask her how she felt. This could start a whole level of friendship between you and your crush.

Hope that this have helped you.